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M3cents's avatar

My Three Values

1. Authenticity – It’s important to me to be true and honest with myself and with others. I find it hard to connect when people aren’t being authentic.

2. Kindness – When I think about the people I admire, kindness is always part of who they are. I don’t think I’m naturally kind, but it’s something I want to grow in.

3. Love – If jealousy is information, then love is what I envy most in others—when they are deeply loved and love deeply in return. I know I have love in me, but I’m still striving to live it more fully.

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Nicole Paulus's avatar

I love that you have identified areas you want to grow in. That is so key to laying a foundation for building a life you are truly excited about. I'd love to hear which of these values you are going to "become" - have you already done day 3? https://exitingthematrix.substack.com/p/become-your-values

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M3cents's avatar

3? What happened to day 2?

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Nicole Paulus's avatar

I got confused when I scheduled them LOL. but day 2 and day 3 are interchangeable. here they are again below :)

https://exitingthematrix.substack.com/p/become-your-values

https://exitingthematrix.substack.com/p/design-your-ideal-day

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Nicole Paulus's avatar

Here are my 3 values:

1. Freedom (this dictates pretty much every decision I make, including where I live, the work I do (FREE-lancing) and the people I associate with).

2. Balance (I balance work with play, exercise with rest, alone time with social time, and chocolate or french fries with colorful whole foods. Balance is KEY for me.)

3. Connection (my relationships make life worth living; I spend a lot of time and effort maintaining friendships and wouldn't have it any other way.)

WHAT ARE YOURS?? :)

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